YOU KNOW YOUR LIFE CAN BE SO MUCH BIGGER THAN THIS.Â
Because you can feel how much more is available and you’re ready to become deliberate about creating it.
Yet you’re still checking the numbers before you decide how confident to feel. Overthinking the move you already know you want to make. Pulling back when things start getting really good. And waiting for your current reality to give you permission to create a different one.
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DEFAULT >> DESIGNER™ is an 11-day Audio Identity Activation for the woman who KNOWS she wants more and is ready to stop unconsciously repeating the version of herself who created what she has now.
For 11 days, we're interrupting the automatic thoughts, decisions, reactions and patterns running your life in real time and deliberately practising the woman who creates what you actually want.
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Not another thing to know.
A completely different way to MOVE.Â
I AM COMPLETELY UNAVAILABLE FOR ANY ONE OF US PLAYING SMALL.
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If we haven't met, I'm Dr Courtney Spiteri >>Â Doctor of Clinical Neuropsychology GONE ROGUE.
 Woo woo with a doctorate.Â
Yes, things go very differently in this world. And let me be very clear about what I mean by playing small.
I'm not talking about whether you're working hard enough.
You've already proven you can work hard.
You've proven you can make shit happen. You can hold enormous amounts. You can be the one everyone relies on. You can pull off the launch, save the project, create the big month, carry the client, find another gear and somehow make the impossible fucking work.
That's not the edge anymore.
The edge is noticing how you've learned to create those extraordinary things.
Because maybe the $20k month came with three weeks of barely seeing your friends.
Maybe the business exploded while your body quietly moved to the bottom of the list.
Maybe you finally took the month in Europe and spent the flight home calculating how quickly you could make the money back.
Maybe you can create momentum like a fucking weapon... but you keep having to rebuild it.
Business up. Life down.
Life up. Business down.
Money comes in. Money goes out.
Push. Create. Exhale. Rebuild.
And you're fucking done with something always having to pay for your expansion.
You don't want to keep choosing which part of your life gets to thrive this season.
You want the rising tide that lifts all of it.
You want the $30k month AND to be at Pilates Wednesday morning, book Europe without calculating the rebuild, have hot sex with your partner that night, and still have enough of yourself left to get excited about the pottery class you booked on Saturday.Â
And underneath all of it is a question you might not say out loud:
WITH EVERYTHING I'M CAPABLE OF…
WHY HAVEN'T I BUILT THAT YET?
Not just the HIGH VIBE spike. The life that holds it and AMPLIFIES.
THIS IS WHERE DEFAULT → DESIGNER™ BEGINS.
You don’t become your next level by thinking differently.
You become her by repeating her.
And right now?
You’re still rehearsing your current self.
Inside this, you’ll learn how to:
• catch yourself in the exact moment you’re about to shrink
• stop softening, deleting or second guessing your power
• move before your old identity talks you out of it
• hold visibility, decisions and momentum without collapsing
• build consistency by becoming the woman who stays
DEFAULT>>DESIGNER is the framework I use. Daily.
 In my business. In my life. In how I lead. It's the WHO behind building a multi-6 figure biz, transforming my marriage & honestly... waking up in a luxury Bali villa thinkingÂ
"how the f**k is this actually my life?".
And it isn't going to cost you your sanity with another endless healing loop of affirmations.
11Â days.
11 minutes a day.
🎧 A sharp audio activation
✍🏽 One identity prompt
🔥 One embodied shift
No overwhelm.
No waiting for the “right time.”
Just repetition of the woman you’re becoming.
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So you stop:
❌ dipping in and out of your power
❌ building momentum and losing it
❌ questioning yourself after every move
And start:
🔥 showing up clean, certain and self-led
🔥 making decisions without spiralling
🔥 becoming consistent because it’s who you are
THE GOLD INSIDE
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DAY 1 — THE MATRIX REVEAL
You don't experience life objectively. You experience it through the meaning your brain has learned to give it. Start seeing where you're reacting to your reality instead of consciously creating your relationship with it.
DAY 2 — DISMANTLING THE DEFAULT
Meet the version of you that's been quietly running the show. Not to judge her. Not to eradicate her. To finally see the patterns you've repeated so many times they now feel like you.
DAY 3 — YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM IS RUNNING THE SHOW
You can consciously want more and still have a body exceptionally practised at what it already knows. See what happens inside you when money, visibility, uncertainty, intimacy or expansion actually arrive.
DAY 4 — THE IDENTITY CEILING
You've already proven you can create success. Now we're looking at the identity that's been required to create it — and whether you want her designing the next chapter.
DAY 5 — THE EMOTIONAL ADDICTION LOOP
Sometimes it's not the circumstance you keep recreating. It's the familiar emotional state underneath it. Pressure. Urgency. Proving. Striving. Relief. Rebuild. See the loop and interrupt it.
DAY 6 — THE VALIDATION DETOX
Stop handing the authority over your next move to the response you received from the last one. No polling. No checking five people's opinions. No letting this morning's numbers decide who you are today.
DAY 7 — CAPACITY IS HOW YOU MEET THE MOMENT
Capacity isn't how much you can carry. You've already proven you can carry a fucking lot. It's how you meet money, visibility, uncertainty, desire and expansion without automatically returning to the way you've always handled them.
DAY 8 — TIMELINE COLLAPSE
Your future isn't built through waiting until you feel like the woman who can have it. You start creating evidence through the standards, decisions and movements you make now.
DAY 9 — DEVOTIONAL EDGE
You don't need expansion to feel comfortable before you move. Learn the difference between abandoning yourself and meeting an edge — and become the woman who can feel activation without automatically retreating from what she wants.
DAY 10 — FROM REACTOR TO CREATOR
Learn Pause to Power and create space between what happens and who you become because it happened. This is where you stop letting a trigger automatically choose the next version of you.
DAY 11 — CONSCIOUS CREATOR ACTIVATION
This is where it comes together.
DESIRE.
DECIDE.
MOVE.
RELAX.
Not as another process to perform.
As a different way of living.
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 This is more than a course.
It’s an identity recalibration.
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11 DAYS. 11 MINUTES A DAY.
Each day you'll receive a sharp audio activation, an identity prompt and one embodied shift designed to move this work out of your Notes app and into your actual fucking Tuesday.
Because I'm not interested in how much you know about identity.
I'm interested in who you are when life is actually happening.
When the opportunity lands.
When $20k hits Stripe.
When you walk into the bigger room.
When you realise you want even fucking more.
When you're asked to hold something you've never held before.
When life hands you a moment that could change everything.
Who do you choose to be then?
That's where your future gets built.
ABOUT DR COURTNEY SPITERIÂ Â
 Dr Courtney Spiteri is a Doctor of Clinical Neuropsychology who helps leaders, visionaries and impact-driven women expand beyond the limits of their old identity.Â
After years working inside hospitals, neuropsychology clinics and trauma settings, Courtney became fascinated by one question >>>
Why do intelligent, capable women continue repeating patterns they've already outgrown?Â
Her work sits at the intersection of neuroscience, nervous system regulation, identity transformation and intuitive leadership. Combining evidence-based psychology with deep energetic and somatic work, she helps women build the internal capacity to hold more visibility, wealth, impact, love and freedom without burning out, sabotaging themselves or collapsing back into old patterns.
Known for blending science and soul in a way that is both deeply grounded and profoundly transformative, Courtney's work goes beyond mindset. Because lasting change doesn't happen when you learn something new. It happens when your nervous system, identity and inner world finally become a match for the life you're here to create.
And I also understand what happens when a woman finally stops performing and steps into her true leadership regulated, resourced, grounded, powerful.
I have watched countless women walk into my spaces overwhelmed, activated, or under-expressed, and walk out clearer, softer, stronger, more self-led and magnetically themselves.
This work doesn’t just change your business. It changes your body, your relationships, your leadership, your life. And if you are reading this, you already know you are standing at the edge of your next level.
I’m not here to tell you who to be.
I’m here to walk you into the version of yourself your soul has been whispering about for years.
Let’s build the penthouse for your soul, together.